Kindness is not just an ethical behavior; it is also a healthy one.
Being kind to others will make you healthier and happier. Research shows
that unhappy people can mimic the kind behaviors of happier people and
become happier themselves as a result. Nature has wired our brains to
reward us for good behavior. This makes sense because kind behaviors
benefit all of humanity.
Kindness Helps Everyone
Kindness helps the giver, receiver and the witness to kindness. Being
involved in an act of kindness, even passively, will increase the
levels of serotonin (a neurotransmitter than improves mood) in your
brain. This chemical reaction can be compared to runners high and is
sometimes called "helpers high".
Size Does Not Matter
Whether the act of altruism is large or small does not matter. The
brain responds to any act of goodness with a rush of endorphin-fueled
euphoria followed by a period of long-lasting serenity. The same brain
chemicals that cause these good feelings also reduce pain, benefiting
those who suffer from chronic conditions like fibromyalgia.
Fake It
It also does not matter if the act is genuine or feigned. Smiling is a
good example of this. Even smiling by yourself, when no one else is
there to receive it will physically change the chemical makeup of your
brain and boost your mood. Just watching a movie displaying kind
behaviors can give you the health benefits of kindness.
Better Health
All of these good feelings have a positive affect on your overall
well-being. The positive emotions you feel because of being kind will
reverse feelings of depression, isolation and hostility. The result is
less stress and a healthier immune system. Your body will be better able
to recover from illnesses like ulcers, stress-related asthma, fatigue
and insomnia.
There are many things you can do to benefit from kindness:
- Smile
- Watch a move displaying kindness
- Give compliments
- Be positive
- Hold the door for a stranger
- Give up your place in line
- Give blood
- Volunteer
- Write a thank you note
- Smile at strangers
- Say, "hello" and "have a nice day"